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How to prevent adolescent suicide
That adolescent behavior should alert parents?

     Child directly or indirectly talks about wanting to die or kill themselves or unwillingness to continue life. Discussions about the unwillingness to live - an attempt to draw attention to themselves and their problems. There is a myth that if a man says it, it means that this will not do. However, it is not so! Desperate teenager who does not pay attention, it may bring its intention to end.
     Risky behavior, in which a high probability of causing harm to their lives and health.
     A sharp change in behavior. Example, has become sloppy, does not want to talk to people close to him, he began to give away expensive things loses interest in what used to like to do, is moving away from your friends.
     Do teen long depressed mood, decreased emotional background, irritability.
     Availability Example suicide in the immediate vicinity, as well as among the significant adults or peers.

 Dangerous situations for which it is necessary to pay special attention

     Broil or sharp conflict with significant adults.
     Unrequited love or break a romantic relationship.
     Peer rejection, bullying (including social networks).
     Objectively difficult life situation (loss of a loved one, a sharp social rejection, serious illness).
     Personal failure teenager on a background of high importance and value of social success (especially in the family).
     Unstable family situation (his parents' divorce, conflict, situations of violence).
     A sharp change in the social environment (eg, as a result of a change of residence).

What should parents do if they discovered the danger

     If you see at least one of the attributes listed above - this is reason enough to pay attention to your teen and talk to him. Ask if you can help him, and how, in his view, to do it better. Do not ignore the situation. Even if your son or daughter refuse to help, give him more attention than usual.
     Contact the person alone or with a child.

What can parents do to prevent suicide attempts

     Maintain contact with their child. It is important to constantly communicate with the teenager, despite growing at this age need to be separated from their parents.

To do this:
- To ask and talk to your child about his life, to respect the fact that it seems important and significant.
- Coming home after work, do not start communicating with claims, even if the child has done something wrong. Demonstrate an interest in him, discuss his daily activities, ask questions. The remark made in the doorway, and the remark made in the context of stakeholder dialogue will sound different!
- Remember that the authoritarian parenting style for teenagers is ineffective and even dangerous. Excessive prohibitions, restrictions on freedom and punishment may trigger a teenager reciprocal aggression and auto-aggression (ie, aggression, self-directed). In adolescence, the preferred form of education is to conclude agreements. If the ban is necessary, do not take the time to explain the feasibility of the ban. If the child continues to protest, then try to work together to find a solution acceptable to both you and him.

     Talk about the prospects in life and future. Adolescents still evolving picture of the future, or do they see the distant future or current. Find out what your child wants, how he intends to achieve goals, help them draw up a specific (and realistic) action plan.
     Talk with your child on a serious topic: what is life? What is the meaning of life? What is friendship, love, death, betrayal? These topics are very concerned about teenagers, they seek their own understanding of what life is valuable and important. Talk about what is valuable in life for you. Do not be afraid to share your own experience, your own thoughts. Intimate conversation on an equal footing is always better than "lecturing" parental monologues about what is right and what is wrong. If you avoid conversations on difficult topics with a teenager, he would still continue to look for answers on the side (eg, the Internet), where information may be not only false, but also unsafe.
     Make every child to understand: life itself - this is the value, worth living. If the value of social success, good grades, career dominates, the value of life itself, regardless of these things, it is not so obvious. It is important to teach your child to enjoy the simple and affordable things in life: nature, communicating with people, knowledge of the world movement. The best way to instill a love of life - your own example. Your positive attitude necessarily be passed to the child and help him cope with the inevitable difficulties that arise.
     Make it clear to your child that the experience of defeat as important as experience in achieving success. Tell me more about how you had to overcome certain difficulties. Structurally the lived experience of failure makes a person more confident in their own abilities and sustainable. And vice versa: the habit of success sometimes leads to the fact that a person begins to experience very painful inevitable failure.
     Be love and care, understand what is behind the outer coarseness baby. Teen pretends that you do not need it, it can devalue caring and affection for him. Nevertheless, it is very important your love, attention, care, support. We only need to choose suitable for this age forms of their manifestation.
     Find a balance between freedom and unfreedom child. Modern parents are trying earlier and faster to let their children "at will", giving them the responsibility for their life and health. This process should not be momentary and sharp. Providing freedom, it is important to understand that the adolescent is able to dispense with it, and that freedom can they be understood as permissiveness. Parent, it is important to recognize situations in which the child can already provide independence, and in which he still needs help and guidance.
     Just refer to a specialist if realize that for some reason you are not able to maintain contact with the individual or family rebenkom.V work with a psychologist you will learn the necessary skills that will help you regain warmth, trust and peace in the relationship with the child.




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