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Psychological work
If the child is the first time away from home
- Do not panic. Recall that preceded his departure. Find out who saw him last. Analyze the behavior of the child and saying on the eve of departure.
- To exclude all sorts of accidents make inquiries "Ambulance" and the police.
- Gather information about his friends and acquaintances, where it may stay. Do not be lazy, if possible, to recheck them. Find out what were the conversations, what were the intentions of the child during his recent meetings with friends.
- Upon detection of the location of the child is not in a hurry to get it back home by force - the result can be the opposite of what you expect. If it is there is not one, talk to everyone, try to make them allies.
- Enter into negotiations with the child, encourage you to listen and listen to him. When speaking, be careful extremely frank and fair. Do not interrupt the child, let him talk, even if it will be solid charges to your address. If you what - is to blame, admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness.
- Try not to discuss the situation and its consequences, and discuss ways out of it, and your options later in life.
- In the future, do not rebuke the child and try not to reopen the incident. So we should not talk about all your friends and relatives, it is possible that your relationship with your child will recover over time, and in their eyes, he will long be bad egg.
- Try to help the child recover broken links - in returning to school, work, etc. Share your own plans and concerns. It apprehended them as providing confidence.
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